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As for me, I believe the best thing anyone could do would be to work on themselves. The entire reason I even bother with online dating is because I'm deathly scared of rejection, and get social anxiety. Unfortunately, online dating has directed me through cycles of depression, bitterness, jadedness, and perhaps mainly unfortunately - misogyny (since fundamentally I believe women are wonderful.) But on all levels.. men who want to be successful should be working on their fitness, sharpening their heads, and improving their confidence. Camberwell sluts. Online dating could be a tool for self-improvement, if you let it. Sluts near Camberwell, New South Wales. However , I think lots of guys buy into a "Homer Simpson" dream, and expect women to see some internal value they have, which is hypocritical since (most) guys won't go after big-boned/unattractive women on these sites.
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