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As far as attractive women not responding to messages - the anonymity of the keyboard and display have emboldened hordes of men to approach these women, when in yesteryear the scummy ones would've only been the guy in the corner of the pub staring, the man randomly bumping and grinding on women on the dancefloor, but their masses would've been guys simply sitting at home, in their own cellar, paring wings off flies or whatever. But the web and online dating have bridged "want" and "actions" so that with almost zero effort, tons of socially-maladjusted misogynist a-holes can dump their garbage anywhere without the results they'd face trying to do it in person. Northmead Australia backpage escorts. So I do believe that women are embittered by the vast deluge of BS they must sift through, also it drowns the more nobly-purposed attempts.
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